Sunday, 16 March 2014

Human Furniture

What a truly beautiful kink!

I have always been one for degradation rather than humiliation personally (on both ends of the cane). And the ultimate degradation could quite possibly be total objectification.

Forniphilia concerns itself with the objectification of a person into a usable piece of furniture. It would be great to hear from those of you experienced in this form of play what your ideas behind it are.

Would you perhaps like to share past play-scenes or ideas for future ones here?

Also, how do the bondage and the obedience aspect interact? Is it important to you that the slave / sub is bound into position, or do you prefer a display of total obedience as an object (absence of free will as a person during the session)?

Looking forward to your ideas & comments!

Love,

Aidan xXx


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Friday, 14 March 2014

Discount on Everything @ HONOUR - Only for BiZarre Events visitors!

Hello All – Brilliant news! We've teamed up with our friends at HONOUR and created a very special 15% OFF EVERYTHING exclusively and just for you!

HONOUR will give anyone who comes from our website a full 15% discount off absolutely everything they sell, including their massive selection of PVC, latex and leather clothing, their exquisite whips, paddles and canes, restraints, hoods, strap-ons, blindfolds, brilliant sex toys, clamps, BDSM accessories and furniture, sexy shoes and their very kinky lingerie range.

To get your 'grab & run' discount simply head on over to our website at www.bizarre-events.com and click on the promotion box on the home page.

How's that for a start into the weekend...?

Love & Kisses,

Aidan & Nina BiZarre xXx


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Thursday, 13 March 2014

Asking Your Partner To Join You In Your Kink...

More often than not our kinky fetish lives are kept very separate, hidden from our everyday 'vanilla' lives for one reason or another.

But let's say you have a partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife who are not yet  involved in (or even aware of) your delicious preferences but ideally you would like them to share this wonderful world with you...

If you are already in an existing relationship, how do you bring up the subject? How do you go about asking your partner to join you in your kinky / fetish exploits? How do you 'correctly' and sensitively communicate your desires to your partner? And what are the pitfalls to look out for?

We'd love to hear about your experiences, hint & tips on this subject. Thanks for your responses – this is a very important subject, and not just for newbies actually.

Love,

Aidan BiZarre xxx


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Tuesday, 11 March 2014

Quiet Please..!

Particularly if you live in an apartment building, using canes, whips, paddles or even wooden spoons or your open hands for impact play can easily produce sounds that are at least disturbing the people next door, or worse...

What are your tips on keeping BDSM playtime (and kinky sex in general, I suppose) quiet enough to not upset the neighbours? 

Do you turn up the TV? Play music? Are there any affordable sound-proofing materials you can recommend? Or do you avoid certain kinds of play all together because you're afraid the neighbour might hear you?

It'd be great to hear about your experiences on this subject!

Love,

Aidan xXx


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Thursday, 6 March 2014

Can A Experienced Sub Teach An Inexperienced Dom?

Can a newbie Dominant be 'taken under the wing' of a more experienced submissive and mentored without reversing the D/s dynamic?

If so, what are some things that could help reinforce the D/s roles while allowing the submissive to teach the Dominant?

It'd be great to hear your thoughts on this...

Love,

Aidan x


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Thursday, 27 February 2014

Your's Truly... (Nina & Aidan play-time)

Here are some shots of us at play. Enjoy...








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Sunday, 2 February 2014

Aftercare - How Do You Do It?

Aftercare, following a BDSM / Kink 'play scene' is very, very important in my opinion. But preciously little is it a subject for discussion, from what I gather...

It'd be great to hear from you Dom(me)s and subs what you think.


For example:
  • What do you do for aftercare?
  • Also, how do you do it?
  • What is important to you?
  • Does aftercare feature in your 'play scene' negotiations?
  • What about when playing with a long-term partner versus when playing with a casual partner?
Looking forward to hearing people's thoughts on this!

Love,

Aidan xXx


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Thursday, 30 January 2014

You've Tied Your Partner To The Bed - What's Next?

Right, so you've secured your partner's wrists and ankles to the bed posts (obviously making sure their joints are in a comfortable position, there's a little slack and that you're not cutting off their blood circulation).

They are looking at you eagerly, wide-eyed, ready for almost anything. And here's the question: WHAT DO YOU DO NEXT?

And for you subbies: WHAT WOULD TURN YOU ON THE MOST IF IT HAPPENED TO YOU WHILE YOU'RE TIED UP?

Be creative, be pervy, go on, share your ideas with the other readers. Very much looking forward to your replies...!!!

Love,

Aidan BiZarre xXx


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Tuesday, 28 January 2014

BiZARRE EVENTS - London Adult Sex Parties: LONDON ADULT SEX PARTY / FETISH PARTY PHOTOGRAPHS ...

BiZARRE EVENTS - London Adult Sex Parties: LONDON ADULT SEX PARTY / FETISH PARTY PHOTOGRAPHS ...:

Hello All - Here are some (anonymised) photographs taken at one of our sex parties a little while ago by our very own official in-house photographer.

PLEASE NOTE: We normally DO NOT ALLOW ANY PHOTOGRAPHY at any of our adult sex parties!

However, on this occasion and with full consent and agreement of everyone in the images (!) we are proud to be able to give you a little peek into what we get up to.


Hopefully this will whet your appetite and we might see you this Friday, Jan 31st at BI-KINK CLUB (http://www.bizarre-events.com/#!bi-kink-club/c1bo1) or at any of our other monthly nights soon!

Love & kisses,

Aidan & Nina BiZarre xxx

Monday, 27 January 2014

SAVAGE Deams on Valentines Day - London's Most Exclusive BDSM Night For Couples!






SAVAGE Deams is unique couples-only BDSM night to indulge your senses in what is perhaps London's top fetish venue and most exquisitely appointed dungeon!
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We have created this highly-successful event for experienced fetishists and players, and also for those who are new to the scene and interested to learn and see more of how their darker desires of domination and submission might translate into reality.

This adult sex party will make any of your more extreme fantasies and kinks a reality - in a completely safe, sane, consensual, luxurious and sexy environment.​
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Under the experienced and hands-on guidance of three of the UK's top Dominatrices you and your partner will be introduced into the tantalising sphere of BDSM.
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SAVAGE Dreams guarantees an absolutely unforgettable night of sensual delight and sexual freedom shared with a small, exclusive, carefully selected group of like-minded, sexually intelligent couples.
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All of our events are explicit, open-minded and 100% non-judgemental. 

We are LGBTQ-friendly. Our couples-only policy INCLUDES SAME-SEX COUPLES as well as TV/TS/CD. 

We welcome and encourage M/M and F/F activity for our bisexual and bi-curious guests.
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WHEN
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​February 14th 2014   (Valentines Day), 9pm - 3am



​​​​WHERE​​​​​​ / OUR VENUE
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We are proud to announce that we have been able to secure one of London's most unusual, luxurious and appropriately kinky fetish venues for SAVAGE Dreams. Our truly unique venue are THE MURDER MILE STUDIOS in East London, a well-established, internationally famous, purpose-fitted and very luxurious BDSM dungeon and kinky play-space, which also frequently hosts upmarket kink- and fetish related photo and video shoots.


Downstairs    (Reception, Cloakroom, Bar, Smoking Area, Boudoir)
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The downstairs venue consists of an elegant Reception Area with leather sofas with separate staffed Cloakroom, a welcoming (and of course free!) Bar with service area, tables and chairs, as well as access to a private Smoking Area. And of course there is the truly sumptuous Boudoir Room with a beautiful, large Four-Poster Bed...


Upstairs     (Dungeon, Medical Room, Prison Cell)
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The upstairs venue offers a large, furnished, large Dungeon space, fully equipped  with many bespoke pieces, including:


  • Custom four poster bondage bed with cage underneath
  • Gothic series steel St Andrews cross
  • Gothic series steel bondage chair
  • Custom mummification bench
  • Versatile leather upholstered spanking/examination bench
  • Versatile leather upholstered bondage horse
  • Steel black powder coated fetters puppy cage
  • Steel black powder coated suspension frame
  • Huge dark wood and leather Goddess throne
  • Huge raised custom steel throne/bondage chair
  • Fetters bondage wheel
  • Steel bondage chair with cut out
  • Steel vertical dancers/bondage pole

Adjacent to the large Dungeon area is the Medical Play Room with:


  • Black Hydraulic dentist chair
  • Red Vintage examination chair
  • Versatile white leather fully reclining chair
  • Medical trolley

There is also a fully functional Prison Cell with single bed & steel toilet - perfect for isolation and slave storage..!


​​​​ADMISSION​
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Tickets and memberships will be sold online and prior to this event only. Membership is required because these are exclusively PRIVATE events. Membership will entitle you to attend all of our other events (incl. BI-KINK Club and PisSoir) as well.
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​ Please RSVP for this event on our website (link below) to allow is to get to know you a little bit better if we haven't met you before. You will then receive details on how to buy your tickets by personal email.
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​All of our adult parties are explicitly Pan-Sexual / Bisexual.​​​

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​BDSM KNOWLEDGE
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SAVAGE Dreams offers an absolutely unique opportunity in the UK to get aquainted with the BDSM lifestyle in a safe, sane, liberated and luxurious environment. Or to jump right in and live your wildest fantasies if you are already seasoned players. For those of you who are new to this sort of event our Dominatrices and our crew will be happy to introduce you to the basics, and offer hands-on expert advice, including:
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  • Dungeon & Play Etiquette
  • Correct use of toys and furniture
  • Negotiating Limits and Desires
  • Use of Safewords
  • Correct use of Restraints
  • Safety and health in BDSM
  • Correct Dom behaviour
  • Correct submissive behaviour


BDSM EXPERIENCES
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A night at SAVAGE Dreams will allow you to experiment safely with your deepest, darkest desires and experience the more extreme sides your sexuality in a clean, save, sane and consensual environment and with hands-on expert guidance, in a way that you will find nowhere else in the UK. Some of the play-time activities you might want to experience include:
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  • Feminisation
  • Bondage
  • Needle Play / Play Piercing
  • Corporal Punishment
  • Wax Play
  • Fire Play
  • Caning
  • Flogging
  • Caging
  • Gagging
  • Humiliation  Public/Erotic
  • Restraints


​​​RESIDENT DOMME  MISS VELOUR​​
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I am an exquisitely seductive Italian Domina, and there is a very little anyone  can do when I cast my dark, lust filled eyes upon them. I endeavour to blur the edges of the dullness of everyday reality to everyone whom I dominate as, for me, every play is a journey to a parallel dimension of erotic sensations, an oneiric state where my favourite activity is control of every aspect of the male and the female nature.
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I enjoy control and relentlessly exert it upon my victims, taking anything I please from them: which infallibly leaves them begging for more. I offer perceptive, sensual and dominating, fetish play effortlessly and spontaneously delivered with lashings of hedonistic indulgence, as I'm passionately dedicated to improving people's sex lives by making their erotic fantasies come true. There isn't anything (as long as it is legal, safe and consensual) that I would decline or judge.
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​For more information please visit: http://www.missvelour.com​​
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RESIDENT DOMME  MISS MYERS​
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Miss Myers is one of London’s most exclusive Mistresses. She is renown for Her diverse and honed skills; Her chilling attention to detail; Her wicked sense of humour; Her subtle cruelties; And Her soft, cultured voice that can soothe and caress your mind or make you tremble to the very core of your being.

With a darkly twisted imagination and a razor sharp wit, Miss Myers possesses an innate understanding of the intense erotic fantasies that drive so many of us to explore the wonderfully wicked world of BDSM.

Miss Myers is an established BDSM educator having run numerous workshops for Coco de Mer and Sh! Women’s Erotic Emporium. She frequently works with couples looking to add a little spice to time in the bedroom at Her elegant den of iniquity in Islington. More information about her services for couples can be found on her website.

​For more information please visit: http://www.houseofmyers.com
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​RESIDENT DOMME  DOLLY D'ANGEROUS​
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Dolly is an exceptionally beautiful, demanding, controlling and intimidating Domme. She may, at her discretion and solely for her own personal pleasure, decide to dispense Her purifying corporal punishment and humiliation to those yet uninitiated. Or perhaps you are already experienced but yet uncorrected..?

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​​​​​​​​​​​DRESS CODE
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We enforce a STRICT DRESS CODE for this event: Elegant or Black Tie, Fetish (we VERY MUCH ENCOURAGE all forms of sexy and kinky fetish clothing, sexy outfits) or COMPLETE NUDITY. ​Be creative, make an effort and have fun!

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FREE DRINKS
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You will receive a glass of 'bubbly' for a tasteful welcome on arrival of course. And there will be a limited amount of free drinks available thoughout the night (spirits, beer and wine as well as soft drinks). But please do feel free to bring your own favourite drinks as well, if you prefer. Glasses will be provided and there is of course a fridge...


SECURITY
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All of our events are protected by SIA licenced door & security staff.

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​OUR CLUB RULES​
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Before you attend any of our events please familiarise yourself with our EVENT & CLUB RULES here: http://www.bizarre-events.com/#!club-rules/c20nk​
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YOUR HOSTS
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We are Nina & Aidan, and besides of being natural 'perverts' and predispositioned kinky fetishists we also have many years of first-hand and direct experience in the adult industry. For quite a while we have grown more and more frustrated with the lack of full-on adult fetish parties catering to the more extreme kinks and fetishes.
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This sort of party normally only happens on the gay scene... Therefore we have decided to host the hottest and most extreme full-on adult fetish sex parties in London. Parties where everyone is welcome, irrespective of their sex, gender, gender identity or sexuality!

Through our company BiZarre Events we are organising a number of regular, very popular, highly successful adult sex parties and events, including SAVAGE Dreams, BI-KINK CLUB, PisSoir and QUEER LONDON. We are offering an intelligent crowd, a light-hearted and friendly no-attitude approach, sexual freedom and experiences previously unobtainable in London.


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We hope you can join us for this exquisite affair, and we are very much looking forward to meeting you in person at SAVAGE Dreams.

Lots of Love,

Nina & Aidan xXx

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☎ 07722 587 951​​

Tuesday, 21 January 2014

How Do I Figure Out What My Kinks / Fetishes Are?


It'd be great to hear how you 'arrived' at your kink / fetish.

How did you figure out what exactly is was that turned you on? How did you go about finding it?

Did your fantasy translate well into 'the real thing'?

Love,

Aidan xXx




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