More often than not our kinky fetish lives are kept very separate, hidden from our everyday 'vanilla' lives for one reason or another.
But let's say you have a partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife who are not yet involved in (or even aware of) your delicious preferences but ideally you would like them to share this wonderful world with you...
If you are already in an existing relationship, how do you bring up the subject? How do you go about asking your partner to join you in your kinky / fetish exploits? How do you 'correctly' and sensitively communicate your desires to your partner? And what are the pitfalls to look out for?
We'd love to hear about your experiences, hint & tips on this subject. Thanks for your responses – this is a very important subject, and not just for newbies actually.
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Aidan BiZarre xxx
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As someone who loves watersports and has never told his very vanilla wife of this fetish would love to see some advice on how to proceed without divorce. I know you should make these things clear from the start but as the time never seemed right is there a right time? I dream of attending pissoir with her.
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