Ah, this is a good one, isn't it...?It brings up all sorts of questions about honesty, the importance of certain aspects of your personality, trust, fear of loosing someone, embarrasment even.
When do you 'come out' as a 'perv'. Right at the beginning of a new relationship? Maybe after a few dates? In the bedroom? In the pub? Or once you've decided it's getting 'serious'? Maybe you don't tell them at all...?
Let us know what you think, and share your own experiences if you like.
Love & kisses,
Aidan xXx
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Indeed a difficult one for me as my partner and I met in a club dungeon... I was the house Domme and she stuck a pair of flashing bunny ears under my face as I was trying to explain to a punter what my various gadgets were! So our eyes met across a crowded dungeon lol...
ReplyDeleteI'd say maybe whilst browsing in Anne Summers or try making it the topic of humour and see what response you get before going the whole hog and coming out with it! Alternatively you could tell your partner just as you are about to decend 'The Big One' at Blackpool's Pleasure Beach... that way at least she will be less likely to run away!
Just asked this of a friend of mine... he said "At the Alter! - Least that way you'll know you're marrying the right woman (or visa versa)!"
ReplyDeleteFailing the above and not advertising it but Erotica Uk has 'a bit of everything' so why not make a point of taking your new partner (as a surprize outing) and see what their reactions are to the various topics before telling them? You'll either get slap across the face or one of the best nights you've ever had... in more ways than one! lol xxx
ReplyDeleteFor me i thought it best to wait quite a while, build up a level of trust and then eventually after experimenting here and there we sat down and had a discussion about it and eventually she tried some of them with me and now loves them which worked out well, but i was still quite nervous as to how she would react.
ReplyDeleteBut that's just how it went for us, fr some people right away might be better off.
As soon as possible, you want them the type of person they are about to get entangled with. Allowing them to make an informed decision.
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