Was this an almost pre-determined thing for you? Or was it rather a process? How did you decide? What did you take into consideration? Do you have to decide in the first place? What about being a 'switch'?
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Aidan xXx
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i am a switch, i have always and will always be a switch. i can take control or i can submit but i am happiest in the middle with power exchange
ReplyDeletestarted as a Top but found my niche as a bottom
ReplyDeleteBut *how* did you guys decide? I mean, even being a switch (as I am) is a decision. For me it was quite a 'rational' process (just stopping short of making a list of pros & cons though). Ax
ReplyDeletechemistry of partner i was attracted to? Interestingly when i was doing a job i felt incompetent at, was a total Top for that duration
ReplyDeletewell... when i was 5 i was in the closet with my best friend and we pretended to be barbie and ken, i was ken and i had her go down on me... thus how i learned i liked control, role play and ladies hahaha
ReplyDeletenot exactly sure how i learned about the submissive side but i think that was when i was 8 and watching labyrinth trying to puzzle out the mind games going on and later recognizing it as D/s
ReplyDeleteAh, so it was not a solitary process but invloved the dynamics of another in both cases? Interesting. In my case, I think, it started with a partly formed fantasy which I then looked to fulfill somehow. Or at least with a direction I wanted to move into...?
ReplyDeleteI consider myself a switch, I love love love to be a dominant person, have the control and play with someone how I see fit, on the other hand I crave being dominated.. I get off on being restrained and forcefully played with.
ReplyDeleteI never thought of myself as a dom until I got the chance with my partner.. I discovered it almost by accident but It was hot as fuck to have the control for once..
First of All answer this? Do you remember the first time that you ever had a sexual Orgasm?
ReplyDelete1.a. Please explain your experience?
How old was you when you first realised that you wanted to be sexually dominated by a woman/ man?
2.a. Explain where you were and what triggered these feelings?
2b. Why do you think you had these feelings?
2c.Would you say that the desire to sexually dominated by a woman has grown stronger or weaker as you have grown older?
And now that's only my first two questions, want to know more feel free to add me? Or message me? There's 21 more questions that can really help to find your kink?
My nature, interactions and roles in life shape and decided my position as a Dom.
ReplyDeleteSwitch and proud to be one It really depends on the Person or persons I'm playing with Subbed to some Damn good Dommes and learnt loads Whilst being a sub Now I find myself in a Sub/ Dom dynamic with me taking the Dom role atm in time.
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