A simple question we hear a lot...What's the most sensible and sensitive answer in your experience and opinion? Again, this one is for both Dom & subs of course.
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Aidan xXx
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Think about it. Consider how you feel about going further. Then talk about it with your play-partner. And consider how they feel about taking it further. Consideration, information, respect are the essential ingredients here!
ReplyDeletemmmm again, communication, i love to read my lover and watch when i can take just a lil control... just right there... push a little and make his eyes close and flutter... just the slightest bit of pain in the pleasure and hear him moan .. it's not that he is vanilla but he is not yet a kinkster and i love the small subtle push that can happen even in public.
ReplyDeleteHow about pushing your own limits...? How do you guys approach that? Is it 'just' a feeling of wanting to go further? Do you rationalise (as with others maybe)? How do you know you're not just getting 'carried away' by the moment? Ax
ReplyDeleteCommunication is absolutely key when it comes to things like this. I haven't been with a partner long enough to establish proper limits, so until I've been able to experiment fully with those, then I won't know when they need pushing. I think it's something that can either be mutually agreed on or raised by one party in discussion with another. It's only when it feels right.
ReplyDeletewell there are lots of on line clubs, or are you on about real time clubs ?
ReplyDeletei dont go to clubs, i end up being an outsider and wanting nothing more than to be part of the staff instead of a guest haha and online worked to a point years ago but not any more
ReplyDeleteyes that,s why i meet in a pub frist time ,then if it a no show you still have a night out and it safer too. yes lots of them get cool feet lol
ReplyDeletei dont get cold feet, it is more that i am used to being behind the scenes, i work events in some way instead of watching them
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